June 3, 2005

  • ONE INCOME FAMILY

    Some of you have asked about being a one-income family. Here are some of the things we did to help those dollars hubby was bringing home to streeeeeeeeeeeettch:

    1. We only had one vehicle for many, many years. I took hubby to work on days I needed to run errands, or go to Bible Study.

    2. I tried to do all my errands on one day of the week, instead of running to town several times a day or week. (Usually on the day we had Bible Study, or a doctor, or dentist appointment.)

    3. We shopped for paper goods and cleaning supplies at our local Family Dollar or Dollar General store. This often saved me a trip all the way into town and you can usually save quite a bit there, even over Wal-mart.

    4. I made out menus to make weekly shopping easier. I stocked up on whatever was on sale, especially in the meat department. (We bought a chest freezer to do this.)

    5. One night a week we had a meatless dinner. Usually spaghetti. It is amazing how many vegetables you can hide in a hearty tomato sauce! (I hid veggies that my kids might not otherwise eat like carrots and zucchini in that sauce.) Garlic and oregano hid my secret well.


    6. We packed picnic lunches instead of picking up fast food for outings, pool days and errand days. We also drank lemonade or tea instead of sodas.

    7. We read out loud as a family in the evenings instead of renting movies. If you have grade school age kids, try the “Little Britches” series by Ralph Moody. It is autobiographical and full of moral tidbits. In the first book his dad dies and he becomes the man of the family. We also read all the “Love Comes Softly” series about Marty and Clark by Jannette Oke, the Little House books, and Anne of Green Gables. As they got older we read Frank Perretti. My son also really enjoyed the J. Oke books about Josh when he was in Jr. High. I can’t remember the names but they all had seasons in the title; you know spring, summer, fall, winter.

    8. We checked out books and movies from our local library, instead of purchasing or renting them.

    9. We swapped out with friends keeping our kids every other week so we could have a date night without having to pay for a sitter. When they got older they took turns spending Friday night with a friend and we had the house all to ourselves.

    10. We only bought a few sets of “good clothes” to be seen in public in at a time. We all lived in sweats, or shorts and tees at home. (I outsmarted my son when he was around ten, or so, by buying all his sweat bottoms black. That way he matched no matter which shirt he chose to put on!)

    11. Swap hand-me-downs with friends and family. Kids grow so fast, this is one of the easiest things to do!

    12. We did not allow the kids to watch commercial TV during traditional prime kid viewing hours. That way they weren't programmed to want specific toys or items that were pitched during cartoons, etc. For a few years we had a choice between videos or static. (Funny but what they wanted for Christmas that year was a train set for him and dress up clothes for her, rather than the latest electronic gadget.) We had some of the best times playing dress up, and making up our own plays, and playing board games!

    I’m sure if you put on your thinking cap, you can come up with more.

Comments (12)

  • these are great suggestions... I find that if I don't leave the house we save a lot of money!
    We live in a neighborhood that has a pool so we go to the pool most every day and that way it keeps the house somewhat clean and we pack our lunch... It is great... and as far as I know... fat looks better tan... haha! Love these ideas.... GOD has blessed us so much... we have a family that gives us all their handmedowns and they have the coolest clothes... my kids get so excited! Have a great weekned.

  • I sent an answer to your question you left on my site by e-mail. It was rather lengthy and I did not want to take up your posting space with a long answer. Have a great weekend. Oh, by the way, love the new picture.

  • I love hearing you share about things you did when your kids were growing up! It sounds like you just have the neatest family! I laughed about the spaghetti sauce, cause my mom used to do the same thing! She always tried to sneak veggies in stuff, but especially her spaghetti sauce. (She admits to it now). But, I have to say, I now appreciate all her health food ventures with us...I find myself being like her now!

  • I NEVER rent movies, EVER! We've always used our local library for stuff like that.

    People make it seem as though you can't get by on one income. You do what you have to do once you've set priorities and made choices. Besides, going out to eat is NOT and never has been a MUST in my life. Family trips and vacations, however, are important and we make allowances for that.

    I'm struggling w/going back to work. If I do it'll be only part time. I'm currently homeschooling my daughter but I'm not too sure I'll do it during her highschool years.

  • Great tips! We tried the babysitting thing with friends but when it came our turn to go out they were never able to babysit so that one really didn't work for us. But God has been so good to help a little go a long way at our home as well.

    Love ya, Darlena

  • It is my humble opinion that home schooling in high school must be something the student is motivated to do, for it to work. And by then most of it should be self directed. (We took biology and art at our local junior college.)

  • Thanks for the tips!

  • You totally amaze me........What wonderful Ideas, and how responsible.  Discipline is still something I struggle with.........Like making myself do the laundry instead of playing on the computer..........Well off to do some laundry, see I'm learning.

    Love Steph

  • Good ideas, enjoyed the music.

  • thats  great my daughter wants to be homeschooled and has wanted it for a few yrs now  but  she is a only child  and i want her to socalize with other kids  she is a mommy daddy girl and dosent go out with her friends  she would rather be home with us  so thats  her only social time  so i said no  she is 13 yrs old  but thanks  for the great tips on saving money  i did day care for 19 yrs  now i have been at walmart  working nights for 2 yrs i  would love to be back at home  :)

  • If socialization is your only issue, homeschooling may still be for you. You would have to work VERY HARD to isolate your child. Mine were active both in the Youth group at church, and our local Homeschool support group. They even had part-time jobs in the community. At one point we did a teacher's coop for science and math with about 6 other families. Sometimes I think people get the idea that in order to teach your kids at home you can't allow them to interact with others. That seems to be a common misconception. When you bring them home you are just a little more in charge of who they spend their time with. I suggest reading "The Socialization Trap"

  • This was a great post. -Nat

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